Optimising Leader Brilliance
Helping Executive Leaders And HR Directors remove performance bottlenecks for Key Leadership talent in 4 weeks. 
Optimising via my CLEAR System for NEXT LEVEL results.
Using a neuroscientific process which AI can’t compete with, this isn’t just conversational coaching, which relies heavily on the implementation of new behaviours.
This is a process which changes the biological loops that keep leaders stuck in self-sabotage, releasing them to optimised performance and calm, strategic confidence.
The Invisible Ceiling Blocking Performance
Every organisation relies on ambitious leaders who want to do better and be better, delivering high-performance results. However, there comes a point where the old strategies that drove early career success stop working, creating a bottleneck. Despite hard work, they hit a performance ceiling. This roadblock triggers self-doubt, anxiety under scrutiny, and potential burnout—often sparked by a promotion, market shift, or new initiative. Overwhelmed, these leaders lack the time for traditional, exhausting coaching and training methods. Both the leader and the organisation need results to change quickly.
The Root Cause: Childhood Programming Vs. Adult Leadership
These bottlenecks occur because leaders are fighting against old programmes created in childhood meant to protect them from “bad” things happening—biological loops that have served them up until now. The truth is, we all have them, and it’s nobody’s fault.
The subconscious coding and habits formed in those early years actively bottleneck the transition into next-level leadership performance. What got a leader here simply won’t get them there.
Having coached executives for over two decades, I have found that these behavioural barriers consistently fall into 7 leadership saboteur categories:
The 7 Leadership Saboteurs:
The Micro-Controller
Struggles to delegate or trust others’ work, driven by a fear of losing control, failure, or being exposed as inadequate. They often step in to manage details and control outcomes, which can limit team growth, create bottlenecks and overwhelm the leader.
The Relentless Perfectionist
Sets impossibly high standards for self and others, driven by a need to avoid flaws, errors, and criticism through endless analysis and refinement. This leads to overwork, dissatisfaction, and frustration when things are less than perfect.
The Doubting Imposter
Experiences persistent self-doubt and fears being exposed as a fraud, despite evidence of competence or achievement. Driven by a need to belong and feel good enough, the leader proves their worth, through over-doing, resulting in stress or burnout.
The Constant Firefighter
Operates in a high-alert, reactive state, treating daily issues as urgent crises. Driven by a sense of duty to protect the organisation, this leader prioritises immediate problem-solving over long-term strategic planning, which can cause burnout and hide systemic structural needs.
The Strategic Procrastinator
Delays critical, high-stakes decisions by channelling energy into routine busywork. Driven by a need to avoid exposure or failure, this leader prioritises comfortable tasks over bold execution. This pattern stalls momentum and limits organisational growth.
The Chronic Harmoniser
Prioritises keeping the peace and avoiding conflict at the expense of necessary change. Driven by a fear of being disliked, this leader avoids tough conversations and compromises their boundaries, inadvertently stalling team accountability and heavily increasing their own to-do list.
The Over-Achiever
Seeks validation and external success, believing they are only valuable for what they achieve, not for who they are. Driven by a subconscious fear that rest is a sign of weakness or laziness, this leader prioritises the next target over personal boundaries. This loop can cause workaholism and lead to internal burnout.
The Solution? Modify The Autopilot With Neuroscience
Fortunately, there is a simpler, quicker, and neuroscientific way to break these leadership saboteur patterns. I iron out the performance bottlenecks in as little as 4 weeks, saving you time, thousands in recruitment costs, and painful performance management, to achieve NEXT LEVEL results.
Resolving them requires minimal effort from the leader, other than showing up for their coaching sessions. There is no need to spend *66 days exhausting oneself trying to force a new habit. I do the heavy lifting by identifying the root cause of the saboteur(s) and applying The Havening Techniques to eliminate them, leaving space for automatic belief, behaviour and emotional change.
*21 days to change a habit is a myth. Studies show it takes the average person 66 occasion of practicing the new behaviour – no wonder traditional change methods fail!
Both of my flagship coaching programmes use Havening. You can explore them below:
Coaching Programmes:
Option 1: The Resilient Leader: SHINE
A neuroscience-backed framework engineered for rapid transformation, clearing the deep micro-traumas behind stress, anxiety, imposter syndrome, and overwork in just 4 to 6 weeks. Using advanced Havening Techniques®, we neutralise your core performance triggers to restore your calm, strategic confidence and personal effectiveness.
Option 2: The Optimised Leader: NEXT LEVEL
A rigorous, strategic system created for leaders ready to break through the invisible performance ceilings created by their primary leadership saboteurs, step away from daily firefighting, and build the future. Once these subconscious blocks are cleared, we align your biology with your ambitions, giving you the clarity to co-create, articulate, and execute a bold organisational vision.
Alternatively, We can design a bespoke programme based on your needs:
Coaching Transformations
The Micro-Controller: From Rigid Operations to a £20 Million Turnover Boost
“Our firm had been successful for generations, but we suddenly started losing business. The feedback from clients was that we were becoming staid, old-fashioned, and lacking in innovation. The reality was that our internal processes had become too rigid. I was overly involved in the micro-details, managing everything from minor expenses to company dress codes. Being stuck in the day-to-day details meant the team didn’t have the flexibility to innovate.
We brought Estelle in to help guide a deep cultural change. We defined a clear vision for the future, which allowed me to step back from the day-to-day operations and trust our teams to align our company values and strategy.
The teams worked hard and became highly engaged. Once they were given the autonomy to operate without constant oversight, they delivered highly innovative, flexible solutions for our clients. Two years down the line, our turnover increased from £120 million to £140 million—and we achieved that substantial growth during a difficult market downturn.”
Chair, Construction Industry
The Micro-Controller: From A Lack of Trust to A High Performing Team
“My team is more responsive, proactive and is doing things before I ask. They anticipate what I am going to ask. I have changed the way we work and removed the deadlines from the calendar. Before I didn’t trust that the work would be done and it was always on me. Now my team are prioritising. Before I was holding everything together and I couldn’t delegate to anyone. I was unintentionally micromanaging and not letting go. I’m in a very good place in my mind, both in my personal and professional life. Life is good. I have a feeling of freedom. I don’t feel as exhausted after work.”
Head of Finance, Pharmaceutical Industry
The Relentless Perfectionist: From Fear of Making Mistakes To Time Freedom:
“Before my expectation was that everything had to be perfect, but [following Havening] I feel more comfortable and freer. I have stopped looking at the details and I give myself the right to make mistakes. I am no longer afraid if my team makes mistakes either. There is just so much more trust now. When I leave the office—my time is my time. I’m finally free to enjoy my life and my family!”
Commercial Director, Pharmaceutical Industry
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Coaching Transformations
The Doubting Imposter: From Fear of Being Found Out To A £250k Profit Turnaround:
‘Taking over the role as Acting CEO, I felt nervous about how I came across – that fear of being asked a question and not knowing the answer. I felt intimidated by some of the characters in my wider organisation, especially as I was sat on the ‘intellectual decision-making table’ with them. They were so articulate. However, I recognise that I have a voice and I deliver results. I have led the organisation from a £279k loss to a £250k profit. We are on track to further increase that to £500k this year.’
Acting CEO, Healthcare Industry.
The Constant Firefighter: From Burnout & Flight Risk to Streamlined Productivity:
‘I’ve gone from updating my CV and burnout to recognising that I’m a key part of the leadership team. I’m a more productive, organised, energised professional, and a happier person to be around. My work and homelife are streamlined saving me time and energy. I’m communicating with confidence, clarity and fairness and can handle tough conversations without guilt or ruining my weekend! I’m no longer being triggered by my colleagues, so I can get my point across in a factual way. Finally, I’m able to delegate more because I’m not afraid they will get things wrong.’
Finance Director, Professional Services
The Strategic Procrastinator: From Avoidance to Hunger: Resulting in Increased Sales Conversion:
“At the beginning of a sales pitch, I would lose confidence in my abilities. I would start to second-guess myself, which resulted in low sales. This made me doubt how useful I was to my colleagues, and I feared that I could not stay in my role at that level. Following up also became an issue because I would predict a negative outcome, causing me to procrastinate. However, now I am converting 60% of sales. It feels so natural, as though I have not had to consciously change [following Havening]; it has been a subconscious shift and is more than I expected. Before, I felt threatened by our competitors. Now, I see competition as a good way of keeping us busy and pushing us to take action. Ultimately, I am feeling positive, confident, and more functional. I have a genuine hunger to achieve my goals.”
Sales Executive, Property Industry.
testimonials
Since working with Estelle, I have developed much greater personal balance in both my home and work life, and as a result, appreciate both others and myself more, the latter by understanding and better appreciating the person I am and the role I play.
Put simply, I cannot recommend Estelle and her abilities highly enough. If you are feeling any unease about the person you are, which could be a result of changes in your seniority at work, or issues of a more personal nature, go and see her and you will immediately feel a weight has been lifted.
Estelle's title should be "magician" because what she's able to do is nothing short of magic. It's mind-boggling to think that so many of us plod through life being held back by our own limiting beliefs and negative attitudes when these barriers can actually be smashed through with the help of an executive coach and trainer like Estelle to help us reach our full potential. Estelle is extremely knowedgeable in her field, genuinley cares for her clients and the amazing changes she helps them to make, she is incredibly trustworthy and treats your conversations with absolute confidence AND makes you feel totally comfortable talking about events that you may never have talked to anybody about before. For anybody that wants to become a high performance individual and achieve their loftiest goals, I would have no doubt in recommending, in fact - insisting on, meeting Estelle.
The changes I have felt in myself have been so important to me both within and outside the workplace. I came to Estelle lacking confidence in my ability after a long lockdown, followed by maternity leave and general life. Nothing in particular, had happened, just an inward confidence battle. After just 4 sessions with Estelle, and a few real-life games of 'whack-a-mole' my inner brilliance and outer shine have re-emerged and I feel so much more like my old self!
So important for work and home - thank you Estelle!
I have had the privilege of working with Estelle both on an individual basis and as a HR Manager arranging leadership coaching for our management team. In both situations Estelle has created a safe, friendly and encouraging environment, which allows her coachees and delegates to be open and vulnerable, thereby providing the best opportunity for growth and development. The benefit that our management team have gained from Estelle’s work with us is evident in our business on a regular basis.
From a personal perspective Estelle made our coaching sessions feel like a cosy chat with a friend, when in fact she was working through some key areas that were holding me back professionally. I would whole heartedly recommend working with Estelle to anyone experiencing imposter syndrome. The simplicity of her approach has had a significant on me both at work and in my personal relationships – I can’t thank her enough!
Estelle has recently done some work coaching a colleague to prepare them for a more senior role in the future. Feedback from the colleague has been nothing but positive in terms of the rapport and relationship that was built and the focus on development areas.
The colleague has made some really good progress in some very difficult behavioural areas to measure, and anecdotal feedback from around the business has been very positive in regards to the changes observed.
From a client engagement point of view, Estelle has been a pleasure to deal with and has provided regular updates on progress (with the colleagues permission). She came recommended to me from someone else and has lived up to their endorsement, so I would have no hesitation in further recommending Estelle.
Estelle is a brilliant coach. She is everything you want in a coach, encouraging, challenging, honest and full of integrity. I cannot recommend her highly enough. I have used her personally but she also regularly coaches at Fisher German and the feedback across the business is the same. I would highly recommend using Estelle. Plus she's got a great sense of humour!
I asked Estelle to coach my senior and develop them as leaders, so that they can take over the overall running of my business and collaborate as a team.
Estelle has coached them using the CLEAR coaching process and has helped them build confidence, self-belief and ensure accountability. They are prioritising tasks to maximise their time, building healthy boundaries to positively manage relationships and cultivate positive emotions that boost resilience and overall performance.
They have set Company Values and a Vision and Mission statement, which guides decision making and shapes our Company culture and behaviours, whilst motivating staff, which has benefited the business and will ultimately ensure the business stays focused.
Estelle perfectly balances being supportive whilst also directly challenging an individuals thoughts/perceptions. She changes mindsets which achieves results. I have very much valued my coaching sessions with Estelle and they have without doubt had a positive impact on me. I would recommend Estelle time and time over and regularly provide contacts with links to her book too.
I love Estelle’s approach, style and most importantly the results she gets. A brilliant balance of challenging and supportive and extremely knowledgeable.
I cannot recommend Estelle highly enough. She is extremely personable, insightful, patient and really takes the time to
understand her clients and empower them to achieve their personal goals. She has helped me personally and does it all with the most wicked sense of humour!
You have coached several assistant solicitors at Else over a period of 6 years or so. In particular your coaching methods
focus on both individual goals to suit the person being coached and you align these to the person’s responsibilities and goals as an employee.
Of particular importance is the need to make sure that employees produce results in terms of work winning, converting time spent with clients and contacts into fees and client satisfaction. There are notable examples of staff being coached and finding processes which when put into action produce results. 2 solicitors are a good case in point. Coincidentally fees for one associate partner were relatively low but after a 6 month coaching process with you her fees increased from a £4-£6k per month to £12 – £14k per month. These results require commitments and effort from the coachee but the results have time and again justified the investment.
Estelle is an amazing coach! From our first session to our last, she was encouraging and honest. Throughout working with Estelle, I
felt that she took the time to understand me and was really invested in the journey towards my goals. She has really helped me personally and I would highly recommend her as a coach!
Working with Estelle has been really great for me. She has helped me to put aside some of the issues at work that were
holding me back in managing the business, and to focus on what really matters; she has taught me a good number of new skills too. With her help I have been able to push forwards with my team, much more effectively than before.
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Coaching Transformations
The Chronic Harmoniser: Fear of Being Disliked Dissolved and £1 Million Saved:
‘I recently had a conversation with a colleague I’ve been avoiding for 18 months. His actions were costing the business around £1 million annually. I’d been putting off having the conversation because I feared he would dislike me and that it would damage our relationship. However, [following havening] I just went ahead, and had the conversation without overthinking. No pre-planning and he was fine about it!’
Equity Partner, Legal Industry.
The Over-Achiever: From burnout & Stress Leave to high-performance & time freedom:
‘I’ve got rid of 12 cases and I’m back to doing 2, just like my peers. I’m managing 8 partners instead of 22. I’m leaving at 4.15 pm one day a week. I thought I would feel bad, but I don’t. I’ve got time to garden, play golf and be with my wife. I put my out of office on whilst on holiday in France and didn’t look at my emails once. I told my colleagues not to bother me. I recognise that I am needed. I have found that I care less; I still care just not to an extreme. I’ve stopped thinking about work all the time.’
Equity Partner, Legal Industry.
The Doubting Imposter: From Sceptic to Top Performer: A 300% Fee Income Increase
“I was sent for coaching to increase my monthly fee income and was very sceptical about the process. I was conscious that I was achieving two-thirds fewer fees than my peers and would constantly compare myself. When Estelle asked me what was getting in the way of my best performance, I said I didn’t feel good enough. We used Havening and EFT to clear up this limiting belief, and it resulted in me increasing my fees by 300%. I’m better organised, delivering on my objectives and feel confident in my abilities. I also became the top fee-earning performer within my level of PQE.”
Commercial Litigator, Legal Industry
testimonials
I love Estelle’s approach, style and most importantly the results she gets. A brilliant balance of challenging and supportive and extremely knowledgeable.
Thank you for this highly impactful support on this leadership development programme. This coaching experience has helped me become a more intentional manager: more attentive, more assertive, and better aligned with my priorities. I have learned to better manage my time, set clear boundaries, and, most importantly, adopt a coaching style with my team by fostering autonomy and ownership. The tools shared—particularly around open questioning and conflict management—have had a direct impact on my management practices and on my team’s engagement. Beyond the learning itself, this journey has driven a genuine shift in my leadership posture, which I am continuing to embed over time.
One of the most valuable aspects of this programme was that it combined practical tools with self-reflection. It challenged some of my existing habits and helped me become a more conscious and effective.
Ah wow the feedback I have had is incredible. Everyone really enjoyed the session, and word has got around so I am being hounded for the recording now!
Being part of the Leadership Development Programme has been an enriching and motivating experience. I am better equipped now to navigate my professional journey with more strength and enthusiasm.
'I recently attended Estelle’s webinar on Strategic Planning, which was excellent! Estelle is really passionate about what she does, and she is very good at painting a picture, pulling out your values and really challenging you on some of your thinking. I’m able to use the tools she gave us to focus my thoughts and I feel like I’m on a good trajectory. Thank you, Estelle!'
I have worked with Estelle now for over five years, during which time she has helped to develop the leadership skills of our management team, delivering a series of inspirational and practical learning events ranging from High Impact Presentation Skills to Managing Effective Relationships. Estelle really is our ‘go to’ person for soft skills training and she has developed a number bespoke interventions for us over the years, which have always delivered the goods and have centred around her signature coaching approach. The results are always thoroughly enjoyable, packed with practical tools and good humour and delivered by Estelle in her own unique, energetic and enthusiastic style. I defy anyone to spend time on one of Estelle’s events and not feel energised afterwards.
Estelle’s business coaching has been invaluable for me. At a time when my work had become very challenging and stressful, Estelle helped me to put everything into perspective. Estelle motivated me to become a strong and resilient leader in order to achieve what is expected of me. Her training, support and coaching has given me the confidence and skills to do this for myself by having faith in my own abilities, becoming focused on a strategic approach and being driven by getting things done and achieving the desired results. I have no hesitation in recommending Estelle for business coaching, which for me has been a completely life changing experience, which really has enhanced my approach to both business and life in general by embracing emotional intelligence.
A fantastic start to our Fisher German Spring Graduate Training with our favourite Estelle Read presenting on Personal Resilience and Presentation Skills. So informative and I always love hearing the funny personal stories which makes it so engaging. Thank you.
'Estelle was kind enough to make time in her day to talk to the Midlands CPD L-D Group about Imposter Syndrome. Open and honest about her own experiences, it was something that will have struck a cord with many of the delegates who attended. Estelle also introduced the group to some practical things they could do to manage their own negative thoughts and feelings such as journaling and Havening techniques. It's always great to leave a session not only with information, but also tools you can actually implement yourself. Thank you so much Estelle!'
I've been doing the final assessments on the Management Development Programme this week and the feedback on your session has been overwhelmingly positive. The quality of the presentations has been of a very high standard with everyone taking on board your instruction.
Hi, I'm Estelle
Known for being both supportive and challenging—think good cop, bad cop—I’m tenacious, practical, passionate, and fun. I love helping clients be the best version of themselves by enhancing performance, productivity, self-belief, success, and wellbeing, so that they attain brilliant results. I’ve been running my coaching consultancy business Beee, since 2005.
With 20-plus years of experience coaching leaders, a long list of qualifications (because I too had Imposter Syndrome), and having worked with more than 15,000 people, you can trust that your team is in safe hands. I’m also a qualified Coach and a Chartered Fellow of the CIPD.
In my free time, I enjoy puffing my way up Wainwrights, being zen-like on my paddleboard, and exploring the fab eateries of the Lake District with my family.
